Book Tip: Call me Lola. In Search of Mother

March 4, 2025

Family pictures to treasure and convey self-assurance. The photo book centres around Israeli-American photographer Loli Kantor’s difficult search for clues to reconstruct her mother’s biography on the basis of a few surviving family documents. A fascinating reflection on memory, loss and identity.
The two portraits on the cover reveal the theme of this photo book: the author’s family history, which takes centre stage. In a somewhat blurred black and white image on the front cover, a woman poses at the entrance to the Argentine metro station in Paris, located on Avenue de la Grande Armée. Today, the intersection is dedicated to a resistance fighter couple and is called Place Yvon-et-Claire-Morandat. In the same way that history is inscribed on the city map, the site is linked to a personal memory for the author – as seen on the back cover of the book, which shows a second woman in front of the same metro station. It is Loli Kantor herself, in 2019, standing in the place of her mother, whose portrait was taken 68 years earlier at the same location.

Call Me Lola: In Search of Mother represents the conclusion of a twenty-year process, during which the photographer traced her own history, rummaged through family archives, and took photographs. She also did research in Poland, France, Ukraine, Germany and Israel. Born in Paris in 1952, and currently living in Fort Worth, Texas, the photographer visualised her family history by mixing old family pictures with her own new portraits and strongly associative shots.

Kantor’s mother Lola died two hours after giving birth to her daughter in Paris. Over the course of her life, Kantor learned about her mother indirectly – through images, artifacts, and documents. Both her parents were Holocaust survivors. Her father was a Polish-born doctor and political activist, while her mother passed as a Polish Roman Catholic, by using false documents to escape the Nazis during the German occupation of Poland. Kantor’s father died suddenly, at age 50, when she was 14. Her grandparents perished in the Holocaust; and her only remaining blood brother Ami died unexpectedly, also at age 50. 

Kantor has written this moving book in order to confront her own loss and grief, but also out of a desire to turn the fragments of her own story into a narrative that she can pass on to her own family. The book is not only a meditation on Kantor’s personal loss and the reconstruction of her family story; it also contains a reflective depth of considerations surrounding the global historical tragedy that was the Holocaust. To put it simply, it is about forming a picture; but, in this case, the process took an intense feat of strength. Based upon the individual story presented in the book, it is possible to draw profound conclusions about memory, identity and loss in a much more general way – which is what makes the book so remarkable and enthralling.
Ulrich Rüter

Loli Kantor: Call me Lola. In Search of Mother+-

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With an essay by Nissan N. Perez, and a conversation between Loli Kantor and Danna Heller.
232 pages, 199 colour and black and white images, 20.7 × 28.8 cm, English, Hatje Cantz
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Book Tip: Call me Lola. In Search of Mother